The character arc of Gabor Mate
A life drawn by Character Arc from the public record
Born in January 1944 in Budapest. Between then and now sit the family's emigration to Canada in 1956, years teaching English, a medical degree at the University of British Columbia in 1977, more than twenty years of family practice in East Vancouver, seven years in palliative care, twelve years at the Portland Hotel Society, five books and the Order of Canada in 2018. The line below draws the story so far, in order.
Tap the line to pluck it. Hover or tap any mark for its card. Drawn from the public record of his life; the sources are at the foot of the page.
Who is Gabor Mate?
He asked what happened, not what was wrong.
He was born in Budapest in January 1944, to a Jewish family. His maternal grandparents were killed at Auschwitz when he was five months old, and his mother placed him in the care of a stranger for more than five weeks in order to save his life. The family emigrated to Canada in 1956. These are facts he has told himself, many times, because he regards them as the beginning of the work.
He taught English and literature in a high school for several years before studying medicine, and took his medical degree at the University of British Columbia in 1977. He then ran a private family practice in East Vancouver for more than twenty years, was medical coordinator of the palliative care unit at Vancouver Hospital for seven, and served as a staff physician at the Portland Hotel Society for twelve, working with people in the Downtown Eastside.
His books come out of those rooms. Scattered Minds in 1999 is about attention. When the Body Says No in 2003 is about the relationship between stress and physical illness. Hold On to Your Kids, written with Gordon Neufeld, came in 2004, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts in 2008, and The Myth of Normal, written with his son Daniel, in 2022. The question underneath all of them is the same and it is a change of direction rather than a new answer: not what is wrong with this person, but what happened to them. He won the Hubert Evans Prize in 2009, a City of Vancouver civic merit award in 2011, the Order of Canada in 2018 and a Vine Award in 2023.
The moments
Gabor Mate's timeline.
The 1940s
Budapest, 1944
Setback, and it changed everything. He has told this himself, many times, as the beginning of the work.
The 1950s
The family reached Canada
Milestone, and it changed everything. Twelve years old, and a second country.
The 1970s
Teaching English
Milestone, and it changed his direction. A classroom first, which is a long way round to a medical degree.
Stay teaching, or read medicine
Crossroads, decided.
The paths laid out: go to medical school, taken, or stay in the classroom. Forty years of practice and five books came from the first path, and the teaching never entirely left the writing.
A medical degree
Milestone, and it changed everything. Qualified in his thirties, having already had one career.
The 1980s
Twenty years in East Vancouver
Milestone, and it changed everything. Twenty years of one neighbourhood, which is where the questions came from.
The 1990s
Scattered Minds
Milestone, and it changed his direction. The first book, on attention, written by a working family doctor.
The 2000s
Palliative care
Milestone, and it changed his direction. Seven years at the end of other people's lives.
When the Body Says No
Milestone, and it changed everything. Stress and illness, argued as one subject rather than two.
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts
Milestone, and it changed everything. Twelve years on the hardest street in Vancouver, written down.
The 2010s
The Order of Canada
Milestone, and it changed his direction. The country that took the family in, giving him its own honour.
The 2020s
The Myth of Normal
Milestone, and it changed everything. Written with his son, which is its own answer to the book about parenting.
The line reaches today still adding to itself, which is why it is drawn now rather than at the end. What it has set moving is one change of question, asked in the hardest rooms in a Canadian city and then handed to everybody else, which has altered how a great many people understand their own history.
What he wrote
Books by Gabor Mate
- 1999
Scattered Minds
His first book, on attention, written from inside a working family practice.
- 2003
When the Body Says No
On the relationship between long term stress and physical illness.
- 2004
Hold On to Your Kids
Written with Gordon Neufeld, on why children need adults more than they need each other.
- 2008
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts
Drawn from twelve years treating patients in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside. It won the Hubert Evans Prize.
- 2022
The Myth of Normal
Written with his son Daniel, on illness and health in a culture he argues is making people unwell.
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Sources
- Gabor Mate, English Wikipedia biography, filed under living people.
- Order of Canada, appointment 2018.
- Publisher records for Scattered Minds, When the Body Says No, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts and The Myth of Normal.