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The character arc of Daryl Davis

A life drawn by Character Arc from the public record

Born on 26 March 1958 in Chicago, the son of a Foreign Service officer, and schooled abroad among the children of many nations. Between then and now sit a return to the United States at ten, an all white Cub Scout pack, a parade in which he was struck by rocks and bottles while carrying the flag, the conversation in which his father explained racism to him, a music degree from Howard in 1980, a career playing behind Chuck Berry and Jerry Lee Lewis, an interview with a Klan leader arranged without saying he was black, a friendship that followed, and dozens of people who left. The line below draws the story so far, in order.

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Who is Daryl Davis?

He asked them why they hated him. Then he listened to the answer.

His father was a Foreign Service officer, so most of his early childhood was spent moving around the world, including in African countries, in the casually integrated schools of diplomats where children of every nation, race and culture sat together. That is the important detail. He grew up without the American arrangement, so when he met it he could see it plainly.

He came back to the United States at ten and joined what had until then been an all white Cub Scout pack in Massachusetts. Carrying the flag in a local parade, he was struck by rocks and bottles thrown from the crowd, and the pack leaders formed a ring around him. He did not understand what had happened. That evening his father explained racism to him for the first time. The sheer irrationality of it lodged, and became a question he has never put down: why do you hate me when you know nothing about me?

He became a musician. He absorbed the style of the Mississippi Delta bluesmen who had come north, took a music degree from Howard University in 1980, and was mentored by two legendary pianists who both called him their godson. He has played backup for Chuck Berry and Jerry Lee Lewis for years, was a friend of Muddy Waters, and has performed with B. B. King, Bo Diddley, the Platters, the Drifters and Percy Sledge. He won a regional award for traditional blues in 2009.

Then he went and asked the question. He decided to interview Klan members and write a book, because that question from the age of ten had never been answered. He had his secretary arrange a meeting with the Imperial Wizard of the Klan in Maryland and told her not to mention that he was black, only that he was writing a book. The meeting was tense and the man arrived with an armed bodyguard.

They became friends. Davis was later invited to be that man's daughter's godfather, and when he left the Klan he gave Davis his robe. Davis went on to befriend over twenty members, and reckons he is directly responsible for between forty and sixty people leaving and indirectly for over two hundred. They keep giving him the robes; by 2016 he had twenty five or twenty six of them. He was the subject of a 2016 documentary, and now runs a podcast about changing minds, on which former Klansmen appear as guests.

The moments

Daryl Davis's timeline.

The 1960s

~1962

Schooled among every nation

Milestone, and it changed everything. A childhood in classrooms where nobody had explained race to anybody.

Jun 1968

Rocks, while carrying the flag

Setback, and it changed everything. Ten years old, carrying the flag, and the crowd threw things at him.

2 Jun 1968

His father explains it

Milestone, and it changed everything. The conversation that set the question, and he never put it down.

The 1970s

Sep 1976

The Delta, learned north

Milestone, and it changed his direction. He learned the piano from the men who had carried it out of Mississippi.

The 1980s

Jun 1980

A music degree at Howard

Milestone, and it changed his direction. A proper music degree, from Howard.

~1982

Two godfathers at the piano

Milestone, and it changed everything. Two legends of the instrument called him their godson.

~1985

Behind Chuck Berry

Milestone, and it changed his direction. A working life spent behind the people who invented the music.

The 1990s

1 Jan 1990

Write about them, or meet them

Crossroads, decided.

The paths laid out: sit down with them, taken, or write it from outside. He became friends with that man, was made his daughter's godfather, and was given his robe when he left.

Jun 1990

He decides to go and ask

Milestone, and it changed everything. Thirty two years old, and he went to ask them himself.

Sep 1990

The meeting in the motel

Milestone, and it changed everything. He walked into a motel room to meet a man who did not know he was black.

~1993

They become friends

Milestone, and it changed everything. Godfather to the daughter of the man who had arrived with a gun.

The 2000s

~2000

Dozens leave

Milestone, and it changed everything. Between forty and sixty people, out, because he sat with them.

~2009

An award for the blues

Milestone. Still, through all of it, a working blues pianist.

The 2010s

~2016

Twenty five robes

Milestone, and it changed everything. A cupboard with twenty five robes in it, each one somebody who stopped.

The 2020s

~2020

Changing Minds

Milestone, and it changed his direction. A podcast where the guests are the people he talked out of it.

The robes are still arriving, one at a time, each one from somebody who decided to stop. What he set moving is the least fashionable idea there is and the only one with a cupboard full of evidence behind it: sit down with the person who hates you, ask them why, and then be quiet long enough to hear it.

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Daryl Davis: frequently asked questions

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What is Daryl Davis's character arc?
A diplomat's son schooled among every nation, struck by rocks at ten for carrying a flag in an American parade, who carried the question why into a blues career and then into rooms full of Klansmen, and talked dozens of them out of it.
How many people has Daryl Davis convinced to leave the Klan?
He has befriended over twenty members, and claims to be directly responsible for between forty and sixty people leaving, and indirectly for over two hundred. They give him their robes, and by 2016 he had collected twenty five or twenty six.
What happened to Daryl Davis as a child?
At ten, newly returned to the United States and in an all white Cub Scout pack, he was carrying the flag in a parade when the crowd threw rocks and bottles at him. His father explained racism to him that day, and the irrationality of it became his life's question.
How did Daryl Davis first meet a Klan leader?
He had his secretary arrange an interview with the Imperial Wizard of the Klan in Maryland and told her not to mention that he was black, only that he was writing a book. The meeting was tense and the man arrived with an armed bodyguard.
Is Daryl Davis a musician?
Yes, an rhythm and blues and blues pianist known for boogie-woogie. He took a music degree at Howard in 1980, was mentored by Pinetop Perkins and Johnnie Johnson, and has played with Chuck Berry, Jerry Lee Lewis, B. B. King and Muddy Waters.
What is Daryl Davis's method?
Asking, and then listening. The question he carries from the age of ten is why do you hate me when you know nothing about me, and the record shows he puts it to people directly, becomes their friend, and waits.
Where does this timeline of Daryl Davis's life come from?
From the public record. Character Arc drew every moment on this line from the sources listed at the foot of the page, and the kind and weight of each moment are our editorial reading. Daryl Davis isn't a Member of Character Arc and has no connection with it, and no feeling is attributed to him.

Sources

  • Daryl Davis, English Wikipedia biography, filed under living people.
  • His own accounts of the 1968 parade, the question it left him with and the 1990 meeting, as quoted there.
  • The 2016 documentary Accidental Courtesy, and his own estimates of how many people have left.
  • No position is taken here on the organisation, its doctrine or American politics. This page records what one man did.